Monday, January 31, 2022

Rabba

 One of our favorite places to go for a walk on a boring old day is to Rabba; a small convenience store chain. Its about 20-25 mins walk away. During summers, we take the long way but during winters, we take straight-forward way. You generally buy ice cream in summers, sit in the park and in winters, we admire the beautifully decorated Christmas House, as its lovingly called by people in Milton, sit by the park bench each donuts/cakes that we buy (at Rabba). 



Snow Storm

 2022 began with teeth shattering cold. However, on Jan 16th and 17th, there was a blizzard and you both had snow days from school for those 2 days. What fun it was! There was playing in the snow, making igloo's and mommy's homemade hot cocoa. There is sooooo much snow. poor daddy did most of the cleaning.



Your covid shots

 Its been about 3 months since the vaccinations got approved for children over 5 years. While there was a mad-rush of a lot of parents trying to get slots, we kind of took a step back, wait for 3 months to see any drastic side effects in children post vaccination. 

On Jan 21st, we got both of you vaccinated. Tanush cried a little.


Below is Megha’s; appears like we didn’t take the picture while the bandaid is still on her but wanted to make sure we capture the day anyway :)




Wednesday, January 26, 2022

Huggy tha-tha

 Tanush, by the time you are old enough to actually start reading this, its likely that you will start getting upset why there aren't as many entries under your name. Obviously you are not any less loved...just that, the amount of time/effort it takes to raise 2 children vs one increases and we do tend to drop the ball, which is what happened in this case too. 

You are a hugger. a BIG one. you love giving and receiving hugs. its always, "huggy tha tha" :)

Tuesday, January 25, 2022

Not everything is as you see

 I think Megha, its imperative you that there are a lot of unsaid things in this journey that I am documenting. There are days where there are a lot of tears, especially when daddy yells (usually about Math, not cleaning you room). You would cry, say things like Tanush gets away easy :)

You have no idea the number of times daddy and I fought because one of us would get you upset and then one of us would get upset with each other :)

Rest assured, we are also learning as we go along, we are also growing up as parents. Unfortunately, you being the first born, you end up getting the short end of it, sometimes. I hope you remember everything else we do to show you how much we love you, though, nothing could possibly be shown in action. 

Christmas 2021

 What a year it was, so many up's, a few low's. 

Christmas 2021, though in gifts, was great, the mood (for mommy and daddy) was below par. Lot of reasons, maybe one day when you guys grow up we will talk. 

Meanwhile, here is a picture of you two in front of tree, ready to dig in to the gifts. 



Monday, January 17, 2022

Carnatic Music

 Oct 14th 2021: 

Megha, I cannot repeat this enough, your voice is so beautiful. We started your Carnatic music lessons back in May 2021 and since then, every Wednesday, you have lessons in the evening. Below is a picture of the Official Initiation Day. Generally, this is done in a much elaborate way, but, give we are in the midst of Covid-19 pandemic, we have to make do with a virtual one. 

The green necklace and the earrings you are wearing here are my mom's (your momomma). I hope you like it as much as we both did. 



Friday, January 14, 2022

Year 2020 and 2021

 When you both grow up, Megha and Tanush, I hope that Covid-19 ends up being a distant memory. AS of now, we are in the midst of it and let me just say, its not going well. Somethings yes, many things no. 

I hope this recap of the last 2 years gives you an indication of how our world has been. 

2020:
Jan: Australian bushfires blazed in the country, burning up 47 million acres of land, killing thousands of animal, displacing thousands of people. The smoke was so powerful, countries across seas got affected by it. 
Also UK withdrew from European Union (read: Brexit).

Feb: Impeachment of President Donald Trump. You both should read up on him. Makes for an interesting read. Joe Biden is elected President of United States after the 2020 Presidential Elections. 
This also marked the appointment of the very first VP of US Kamla Harris. (soar high Megha. soar high. Sky is the limit; learn from the great example from great women all over the world. 

March: Several countries announce their lockdowns due to Covid-19. 

May: Murder of George Floyd in Minneapolis. While 100's of black people still face extreme racism all over the world, every day, this particular case has moved me so much because 1) you get to see videos of a grown man crying, "I cant breathe" while a police office kept his knee on his neck for a full 8 minutes, killing him on scene and 2) it sparked so many anit-racism movements (Black Lives Matter) around the world. 

Not to forget NASA lands the very first rover ever on planet Mars!

I am sure there are lots more. Not least though, 2020 F1 World Championship goes to....drumroll, Lewis Hamilton :)

2021:
One of the most shocking (or is it?) news of 2021 for me was withdrawal of US army from Afghanistan. That instantly prompted to Taliban to come to power. I urge you both to read; its bad news. 

Highlights of the year was the Covid 19 vaccine. As millions of people around the world get the vaccine, the fatality rate starts coming down. 

Sept 30th marks the very first Truth and Reconciliation day (an observation Day, not to be confused as a holiday) as 100's of unmarked graves of children are found in Catholic Church/ Residential Schools where indigenous children were forcefully separated from parents back in mid-90's that continued until late 90's.

SpaceX (Elon Musk) and Jeff Bezos launch first ever flight into outer space/ earth's orbit by civilian space tourist. I hope you both get to see Earth from outer space :)

2021 Championship of F1 by Max Verstappen (much to daddy's delight :) ). Redbull hadnt had a great season in over 7 years and looking at Max take the championship (of you should see the Race in Qatar/Saudi in 2021...very controversial), it was a bitter sweet moment for me. 


On a personal level, Deluxe Desserts was born. 
It was Megha's vision which we tried to bring to life. We sold so many of the desserts. Our popular one's are Lemon Ricotta cake, Star Bread and pretzels.... oh the soft pretzles, i have soties to tell you. 

Dad had to be put on furlough. I started working from home (since march 2020). I also accepted a new position within the bank, making me an Associate Director (from manager). 
Dad and I both agree that between 2020 and 2021, we spent more time together and got to know more about each other than the preceding 12 years we've been married.